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At the Land Legal Group, our Los Angeles family law attorneys are well-versed in the intricacies of divorce. We understand that each divorce is a unique journey, distinct from the experiences of others you may know who have been divorced in California.
Each couple brings its unique history, dynamics, and challenges to the divorce process. Factors such as the length of the marriage, presence of children, financial situation, and reasons for divorce all contribute to the uniqueness of each case.
One universal truth about California divorces is that they herald change. These changes, often unspoken of, are an integral part of the divorce experience. Whether you’re ready or not, they’re on their way.
Changes People Fail to Mention They Experienced During Their California Divorces
Divorce changes reflect the numerous practical, financial, and emotional adjustments that divorcing individuals must navigate as they transition from married life to single life.
The changes that go unmentioned, for whatever reasons, may include but are not limited to:
- Lifestyle Changes
Your lifestyle will change regardless of your financial standing before the divorce or the financial support you receive during and after. You are now living in two different places with their own expenses. Financially, things will be different, which will require some adjustments.
- Parents and Work-Life Balance
Whether you are a CEO or a stay-at-home parent, your children will typically split their time between your and the other parent’s home. This means no more endless work days since the other parent isn’t home to watch over the kids, or—if you didn’t work before—time to get a job to help support yourself, your kids, and your home.
- Your Social Circle Will Get Smaller
During and after a divorce, friends can take sides. And this means after it’s all over, you may find some friends have “gone to the other side.” That’s ok. You’re on a new journey with new people waiting to be met.
- You May Lose Your Beloved Pet in the Divorce
In California, as of January 1, 2019, pets are no longer considered community property in divorce cases and are instead treated more like child custody issues. When determining pet custody, judges consider the pet’s best interests, future welfare, and the emotional bonds between the owners and the animal. Unless you and your spouse can agree to shared custody of the pet, one person will keep them full-time.
- You Are Not Going to Get Everything in the Home You Want
The contents of the home must be divided during a California. What does this mean for you? It means you will not get everything—including some of your prized possessions—and should anticipate purchasing some items for your new home.
- Divorce Can Come with Loneliness
Divorce is life-changing. Many people describe divorce as freeing, allowing for long-sought-after independence. What they don’t say is that loneliness can take a significant toll on their emotional well-being. If this is true for you, look at this as an opportunity to seek out new adventures, friends, hobbies, and interests. Get involved in something you were not involved in when you were married. This is your time to change your world.
- You Are Going to Have to Let Go
At some point in time, you will be able to move past the pain and frustration caused by your divorce. However, if you’re finding it difficult to overcome the emotional turmoil and grief that your divorce has brought, then it’s vital to seek professional help. There is no shame in asking for assistance to overcome this challenging time. Eventually, you must accept the reality of your divorce and start focusing on finding happiness and positivity in your life again.
Having a skilled California family law attorney by your side can help with your divorce’s legal and emotional aspects so you can make informed decisions about your journey and get the help you need to succeed. Call 310-552-3500 today to contact the Land Legal Group’s team of skilled family law attorneys in Los Angeles to get started.
